29 Years, 29 lessons

Kia Ora Folks,

Hope you're staying warm and dry as the days get chillier here in New Zealand. Trying my best to avoid catching that winter flu! It's been quite a while since my last blog entry—I can't believe how long it's been since I've sat down to write like this. But here I am again, excited to share my thoughts and experiences with you all—friends, family, and fellow internet wanderers. I hope my journey resonates and brings some comfort to anyone going through similar challenges.


Location: Bangkok, Thailand

I've always toyed with the idea of blogging but struggled to find the inspiration and energy to commit. Honestly, it often feels like running a marathon without a break. Though I've never actually run a marathon, I imagine it's tough—physically and mentally. Sometimes I wonder why I signed up for this race in the first place, but I remind myself that I always finish what I start—I'm no quitter. Lately though, I've been feeling like I'm running low on fuel, missing that old energy and passion that I used to have in my early 20s.

Location: Mount Ruapehu, New Zealand

My body's been sending signals that I need to slow down. It's been running at full throttle, and I've decided to leave my full-time job to focus on full-time studies, something I genuinely enjoy. I've come to realize that if my body is the engine driving me toward my future, I need to take better care of it. Exciting times lie ahead once I finish my studies!

In the meantime, I've reflected on the lessons and experiences that have shaped me into who I am today. I recently turned 29, grateful for everything in my life. So without further ado, here are 29 lessons I've learned in 29 years:


1. You think you've seen it all, but life and people will surprise you. 😯

2. 🧘‍♀️ Taking care of your body, mind, and soul is crucial—exercise, eat well, sleep well, pray, and practice gratitude.

3. 👥 Keep your good friends close; friendships evolve, and that's just part of life.

4. 👵Appreciate your parents—they're getting older too👴.

5. 🍲Your metabolism slows down—gained a few pounds myself, time to hit the gym!

6. Find a hobby—something fun and refreshing for your soul 🎣.

7. 🎯Take rejection as a redirection to something better.

8. 💞 Kindness is not weakness—stay calm and be the bigger person.

9. Mental health matters—a priority in our generation 🧠.

10. 💼 Choose a job that values your mental well-being. 


11. Waking up early boosts productivity 🌅.

12. 🛏️ It's okay to sleep in sometimes too.

13. Embrace uncertainty—it's a lesson from the Covid-19 era 😃.

14. 🚶Going for walks is great for your mind and body—clears your head!

15. Don't forget to take breaks—your health is priceless📵.

16. 😎Know your worth—don't downplay your experiences.

17. Having a mentor is invaluable for gaining perspective👭.

18. 🚫It's okay to say no politely—it's part of being an adult.

19. Work shouldn't dominate your life—make it fit around you👷.

20. 🙏Remember, it's just a bad day, not a bad life—count your blessings.


21. Share what you're comfortable with—say no to oversharing😉.

22. 😂Laughter is crucial—especially on tough days.

23. Creating memories doesn't require money—time with loved ones is priceless🎑.

24. 💪😇Be fearless—the world's yours for the taking!

25. Embrace the tough times—they don't last forever😓.

26. ✞Keep the faith—it'll see you through.

27. 👯We need each other—even Miss Independent needs a support network.

28. Life doesn't need to be all figured out—enjoy the surprises!😱

29. 🙆Be patient—like watering a plant, growth takes time.



Hope you enjoyed reading these lessons as much as I enjoyed reflecting on them. Thanks for sticking with me till the end.


Warm Regards,  

July :)

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